Go To Divorce Home | Add to Favorites
Four Tips To Save Money In Your Divorce Case
1. Have an Clear Written Fee Agreement
Most experienced and effective divorce attorneys charge by the hour and require an advance retainer (or deposit) that is paid at the beginning of the case. Fees and expenses will be charged against the retainer until it is exhausted, at which point the client will be responsible for any additional sums incurred.
Clients will sometimes seek an attorney who will represent them on a flat fee basis, thinking that this will save them money. The problem with this arrangement is that the attorney has no incentive to do anything beyond the bare minimum. The client often feels like his case is being ignored, the attorney often feels like the client is intentionally trying to take up as much of his time as possible, and they may both be right.
Whether you hire a lawyer on an hourly or flat fee basis, it is extremely important that you get a written fee agreement that makes clear the terms of the representation, including whether any retainer is refundable, how often you will receive statements, the attorney’s hourly rates, etc. You should get and keep a copy of this fee agreement.
2. Don’t Mistake Your Divorce Lawyer for Your Therapist
Divorces are extremely emotional. Because your divorce attorney is (or at least should be) firmly in your corner, talking to him can be a very reassuring experience. This person understands your side of the situation and it feels good to talk to someone who sees the righteousness of your position. Because it makes you feel better you get into the habit of calling often, almost daily.
Unless you have more money than you know what to do with you should NOT fall into this trap.
Remember that every time you call your lawyer the clock is ticking and you are getting billed by the hour. Think of it as a very expensive cab ride. As soon as you get in the cab, the meter starts running. It works the same with a lawyer, as soon as you are on the phone with him the meter is running and you are getting charged.
This does not mean you should never communicate with your lawyer. On the contrary, you should communicate with your attorney anytime you need legal advice on your case. But before you pick up the phone make a list of questions or issues you want to discuss and limit your conversation to these points without wasting time ranting about the unfairness of the situation.
3. Don’t Use Your Attorney to Negotiate a Division of Personal Items
Arguing about which party deserves the blue sofa or the bread maker is not a good use of attorney’s fees. As much as possible, you should try to resolve these issues with your spouse. Ideally, if you and your spouse have already separated, you could divide these items by agreement and exchange them before the case has been completed.
Then, when it is time to finalize the divorce the term in the agreement and/or Final Decree, the document would simply state that each party keeps all personal effects (furniture, clothing, electronics, appliances, kitchen equipment, etc.) in that party’s possession. This can save a great deal in fees by avoiding debates over property that has very little market value. 4. Don’t Throw Away Dollars Trying to Save Nickels
This is extremely important. People will often be extremely frugal about hiring an attorney and think they are saving a lot of money by hiring a lawyer for a small flat fee, or hiring someone who is not very experienced but will work cheaply.
This is a mistake.
Your goal should be to reach a reasonable settlement as quickly as possible. In order to reach this goal you will need an effective lawyer who sincerely shares that objective with you. That lawyer will then use his experience and skills to help you reach that objective.
But notice that I said “reasonable” settlement, not just any settlement. If the other side cannot be convinced to settle the case on reasonable terms it is imperative that your lawyer be skillful and confident enough to effectively try your case.
Someone who is learning on the job, or is simply unprepared, can cost you a great deal of money. So don’t cheat yourself out of dollars in an attempt to save nickels.
The Best Interests Of The Child The “best interests of the child” is a phrase often used by courts when deciding matters concerni...
Finding A Nebraska Child Support Lawyer can be a serious decision. The person who you employ will be in charge of obtaining or preserving your rights to your children, your property, and your earnings. Actually, choosing a Nebraska child support lawyer may be a stressful experience. Do it correctly and you can breath easy. Do it wrong and you may have to spend a lot of time dealing with losses that might have been prevented. There are some time-tested strategies that you may want to apply when you locate a Nebraska child support lawyer. Prior to beginning, you had better consider the sort of case that you might need counsel for. Is it possible that you will be mediating your child ...
The Best Interests Of The Child The “best interests of the child” is a phrase often used by courts when deciding matters concerni...
|
 |
 |
 |
Divorce - What Does A Criminal Attorney Do? A criminal attorney basically represents someone accused of a crime in court. Let me give you a little background before explaining what it is exactly that a criminal attorney does. Sometimes the law allows a person to use physical force against another, whether it is in self-defense or the protection of another, or even to protect one’s property, these are all acceptable uses of self-defense. You and your criminal defense attorney are going to have to show at least four instances of why you had to defend yourself in such an extreme way. Your attorney will have to show the judge or jury that (1) your confrontation was unprovoked by you, (2) that you were in immediate danger of bodily harm, (3) that your use of force was necessary in preventing that harm, and (4) that the amount of force you used was reasonable. If you w... |  |
| Divorce - The Truth About Common Law Marriage A great deal of people believe if they live together 6 to 10 years they will be considered married in the eyes of the law, but the fact is, it’s not true.There is a difference between common law marriage and cohabitation. In some cases if you are a cohabitant, you could be considered single and in some cases if you are common law married you are considered married as if you did it the traditional way. So the question is how do I know if I am legally married or considered single under the law. Only certain states recognize Common ... |  |
| Divorce - Hire Divorce Lawyer Or Use Online Divorce Forms? When do you need to hire a family law attorney and when is it okay to just use an online divorce form website to save a little money? This article will provide a few pointers to help you decide whether to do it yourself or retain a divorce lawyer.What Does it Mean to Use an Online Divorce Form Website?Essentially, using an online form website in your divorce case means that you will represent yourself and act as your own lawyer. All of the online divorce form sites have disclaimers making it clear that they are not your lawyer and are just preparing documents on your behalf. While it is your constitutional right to act as your own lawyer, there are some significant risks involved that should be evaluated before you ta... |  |
| Divorce - Deeds Variation - The 2 Year Rule Deeds of Variation - The 2 Year RuleIntroductionI recently received a query from a practicing solicitor asking for advice on using Deeds of Variation. The solicitor in question was acting on behalf of clients who wished to alter the terms of their... |  |
| Divorce - A Divorce Glossary Divorce lawyers and law firms can provide a great deal of divorce information and divorce advice;... |  |
| Divorce - Are There Really Free Public Records? Free public records is a phrase that is searched quite often. In fact, it is the whole reason we created are writing this article. It is amazing how many people conduct an Internet search on free public records every day. We have found that info seekers interested in a free public records have all sort of reasons whether they are seeking divorce records, birth certificates or marriage information. It seems that people are always in need of finding records kept in government files or other public data facilities. So this is our attempt to clarify just what free public records is all about. We hope to provide the insight and recommendations you've been trying to find. The truth is, there is lots of free information at public records sites. However, finding it can be a big c... |  |
| Divorce - The Michigan Friend Of The Court The Friend of the Court has specific duties. One of the important duties is to provide forms and instructions to the public to file for changes in custody, support and parenting time. The instructions include how to schedule hearings and service of the forms on the other party.A person does not need a lawyer for these forms, although s/he may still bring one to the hearing. The filing fees still must be paid: $80.00 for a motion to change custody or parenting time (support can be included here), or $40.00 if only support is addressed. If a person is indigent, s/he can ask the court to waive the fee. Depending on the county, this may be done at the Friend of the Court or the Circuit Court.The forms are available at each Friend of the... |  |
|
|